Lately some good things have happened and some bad things. Although the good outweighs the bad I haven't been having the success I anticipated for a couple of reasons.
1. I don't approach enough
2. I procrastinate alot
3. I get sucked into other peoples plans too much.
I have solutions for all of these including starting a to-do list and force for #1.
So this is me telling me I need to get things done. It's 2008 and this year will be MINE. This is the year of the Don. The year the King takes his rightful place at the throne of the kingdom. I won't lord I will Conquer the venues as if I was taking over a foreign country.
-Peace
Saturday, December 29, 2007
Friday, November 23, 2007
FR: Out with the Brothers.
So I took my brothers out to Atlanta on a Thursday I wish it would've been Friday so we could have went to Compound. We first tried to go to Leopard Lounge but couldn't get in because I forgot my ID. Stupid ass bouncer guy wouldn't let me in even though he knew I'd been there before.
So we ended up going to Sutra Lounge and the bouncers are cool with me there and don't even check my ID. We get in set up for a minute and my older brother goes into set right away. He literally has zero approach hesitation he just goes right in. He breaks all the rules but he opens nevertheless and doesn't eject until he runs out of things to say (100% natural game) or the girl just becomes non-responsive it's usually the first though most girls respond to him.
My younger brother whose the better looking one out of all of us has massive AA but if a girl approaches him he's gold. He's used to being known wherever he goes he likes to play social circle game even though we don't call it that.
Me I'm more of in the middle I'm not an approach machine but when I speak to girl it usually always goes really good. I'm trying to move away from social circle and concentrate purely on cold approach because if you can master that then that makes every other type of game a cake walk.
My older brother is approaching left and right doing alot of good and some bad at the same time. I recognize all his positives and negatives right off the bat but rule number 1 of going in the field is this YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT GAME WHEN THERES GIRLS TO BE TALKED TO. The only thing you say is "theres a girl go talk to her". Besides everybody has there own view on how game should be run and I'm fine with that as long as your beliefs are in line you'll be gold.
Me and my y0unger brother don't get started until these two girls come sit by us on the chairs. As soon as that hapjpened I'm like bam boom bam and the girl is into me I lose interest when I found out how old she is but continue to do my thang nonetheless. I ended chatting another girl who was in a two set my older brother opened but she left when her friend walked off outside of the club due to my older brother running out of things to say. She was highly attracted to me but it was super cold outside and the moment her friend got outside she got the hell out of there due to the weather and she had to follow her friend.
Lessons:
1. When I actually approach I got the best game of anybody I've ever seen in field.
2. Not approaching gets you nowhere.
3. Memorize and practice my stack so I have the conversation go smooter to where I want it to go.
4. Going out with guys who are natural alphas like me is more fun.
5. Never forget my fake ID again.
So we ended up going to Sutra Lounge and the bouncers are cool with me there and don't even check my ID. We get in set up for a minute and my older brother goes into set right away. He literally has zero approach hesitation he just goes right in. He breaks all the rules but he opens nevertheless and doesn't eject until he runs out of things to say (100% natural game) or the girl just becomes non-responsive it's usually the first though most girls respond to him.
My younger brother whose the better looking one out of all of us has massive AA but if a girl approaches him he's gold. He's used to being known wherever he goes he likes to play social circle game even though we don't call it that.
Me I'm more of in the middle I'm not an approach machine but when I speak to girl it usually always goes really good. I'm trying to move away from social circle and concentrate purely on cold approach because if you can master that then that makes every other type of game a cake walk.
My older brother is approaching left and right doing alot of good and some bad at the same time. I recognize all his positives and negatives right off the bat but rule number 1 of going in the field is this YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT GAME WHEN THERES GIRLS TO BE TALKED TO. The only thing you say is "theres a girl go talk to her". Besides everybody has there own view on how game should be run and I'm fine with that as long as your beliefs are in line you'll be gold.
Me and my y0unger brother don't get started until these two girls come sit by us on the chairs. As soon as that hapjpened I'm like bam boom bam and the girl is into me I lose interest when I found out how old she is but continue to do my thang nonetheless. I ended chatting another girl who was in a two set my older brother opened but she left when her friend walked off outside of the club due to my older brother running out of things to say. She was highly attracted to me but it was super cold outside and the moment her friend got outside she got the hell out of there due to the weather and she had to follow her friend.
Lessons:
1. When I actually approach I got the best game of anybody I've ever seen in field.
2. Not approaching gets you nowhere.
3. Memorize and practice my stack so I have the conversation go smooter to where I want it to go.
4. Going out with guys who are natural alphas like me is more fun.
5. Never forget my fake ID again.
Sticking points
Sticking points
Relying on wings to out and have fun.
Not using canned material
Not being loud enough
Not speaking clear enough
Ejecting when I feel I have won
Not approaching enough
Not approaching my type of girls.
Not handling the interrupt of the friend.
Not being assertive enough
Relying on wings to out and have fun.
Not using canned material
Not being loud enough
Not speaking clear enough
Ejecting when I feel I have won
Not approaching enough
Not approaching my type of girls.
Not handling the interrupt of the friend.
Not being assertive enough
Goals in the game as of now.
So here are my goals in as of now I'm sure they will change over time but for now here it is.
Short term(within two weeks)
1. I want to be comfortable with my new stack. I want to know it better than the back of my hand and be able to perform it in a magical way with awesome congruence.
2. I want to have at least three solid pho ne numbers. As in girls that always answer or call me back.
3. Start doing pushups and situps everynight again.
4. To complete all my work before the due date and have it be A work.
5. Keep selling my ass off the way I've been doing this week.
Medium term ( within 4 months)
1. I want to have at least two girlfriends that 8pluses
2. I want to be able to lay a new girl every two weeks as long as I'm going out.
3. I want to start practicing comedy.
4. I want my arms to be a bit bigger
5. I want to have no hesitation in approaching girls in most situations.
6. Have lots of pictures for my online gaming and photo routine.
7. I want to be the top salesman on team (sells/per hour)
Long term (within a year)
1. I want to be able pull for a SNL with a 8plus every week.
2. three girlfriends, 7 Fuck buddys.
3. I want to start trying to ACTUALLY pull strippers.
4. I want to be gearing up for 10's.
5. I want to have a wing who wants to achieve mastery in this game like me.
6. I want to be doing amateur comedy and maybe even have a website about me and my comedy.
Short term(within two weeks)
1. I want to be comfortable with my new stack. I want to know it better than the back of my hand and be able to perform it in a magical way with awesome congruence.
2. I want to have at least three solid pho ne numbers. As in girls that always answer or call me back.
3. Start doing pushups and situps everynight again.
4. To complete all my work before the due date and have it be A work.
5. Keep selling my ass off the way I've been doing this week.
Medium term ( within 4 months)
1. I want to have at least two girlfriends that 8pluses
2. I want to be able to lay a new girl every two weeks as long as I'm going out.
3. I want to start practicing comedy.
4. I want my arms to be a bit bigger
5. I want to have no hesitation in approaching girls in most situations.
6. Have lots of pictures for my online gaming and photo routine.
7. I want to be the top salesman on team (sells/per hour)
Long term (within a year)
1. I want to be able pull for a SNL with a 8plus every week.
2. three girlfriends, 7 Fuck buddys.
3. I want to start trying to ACTUALLY pull strippers.
4. I want to be gearing up for 10's.
5. I want to have a wing who wants to achieve mastery in this game like me.
6. I want to be doing amateur comedy and maybe even have a website about me and my comedy.
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
I'm back biatches!!!
Guess whose back...Yep it's me I haven't been on this site for so long that I forgot I still had it. I will be posting here alot from now. My next post includes my goals and sticking points so be ready for that.
Sunday, January 14, 2007
Thoughts on the two naturals.
In my last Field report I mentioned the two naturals. These are guys are leaders among leaders.
DadeCounty:
This guy is huge he's 6"4 built w/ muscles and could easily be taken as ugly. I always joke w/ him that the reason he gets girls is that hes so ugly that the girls are scared to resist his advances.
Style: He always dresses peacocky. He wears a gold grill and always some nice shoes and a peacocky jacket. He dresses like a gangsta because he is as gangsta as they get w/o actually selling drugs (i believe he has before and done other shit like that). He always has his hair lined up and has chin hair like pastor troy.
voice: talks just like rick ross. Very Very powerful voice
humor: hes funny as hell. Most of his jokes are str8 c/f. We joke on each other all time. He amogs the shit out of everybody I'm the only guy who can go blow for blow w/ him besides the other natural.His stories are always good as hell. It seems like he has a million of them.
intelligence: he doesn't look smart but is smart as hell. Knows alot about life.
If you hanging w/ him you'll never worry about anybody trying to fight ya because hes always the most intimidating looking person in the venue. He's down to fight at any time if he has too. In fact before the club he had all 21 of us come near him and these were his exact words:" We going here to have fun and get on these hoes but if any nigga bump you or anything. Its nothing. you hear me. nothing"
Speedster:
He's only 5"9 and would be average looking if he wasnt for his style
style: long chin hair. Light skin. Tattoos on arm and neck. peacocky jeans. peacocky shoes. peacocky hats. chains on the jeans. chains around neck. STANDS OUT.
voice: Ultra powerful. he talks fast but clear. His voice can be intimidating to most people.
humor: hes really quick. he can amog the shit out of you or sometimes just plain insults people. his brash humor is well calibrated though. Tells great stories when he tells them but is more of the kind of guy who jokes around.
intellience: Smart as hell although again you wouldn't think it at first.
Dade county goes direct but will tease a girl. He kinoes alot and talks real soft to them or in their ear.
Speedster just makes small talk the girls are usually into him within the first five to ten seconds. The girl ends up chasing him. He teases girls and is great w/ groups. Especially groups w/ guys in it.
The main thing I noticed about these guys besides their leadership qualities are there nonverbals and style. They both have those aspects super tight. I know other naturals but they don't get the results these guys get and are usually better looking.
DadeCounty:
This guy is huge he's 6"4 built w/ muscles and could easily be taken as ugly. I always joke w/ him that the reason he gets girls is that hes so ugly that the girls are scared to resist his advances.
Style: He always dresses peacocky. He wears a gold grill and always some nice shoes and a peacocky jacket. He dresses like a gangsta because he is as gangsta as they get w/o actually selling drugs (i believe he has before and done other shit like that). He always has his hair lined up and has chin hair like pastor troy.
voice: talks just like rick ross. Very Very powerful voice
humor: hes funny as hell. Most of his jokes are str8 c/f. We joke on each other all time. He amogs the shit out of everybody I'm the only guy who can go blow for blow w/ him besides the other natural.His stories are always good as hell. It seems like he has a million of them.
intelligence: he doesn't look smart but is smart as hell. Knows alot about life.
If you hanging w/ him you'll never worry about anybody trying to fight ya because hes always the most intimidating looking person in the venue. He's down to fight at any time if he has too. In fact before the club he had all 21 of us come near him and these were his exact words:" We going here to have fun and get on these hoes but if any nigga bump you or anything. Its nothing. you hear me. nothing"
Speedster:
He's only 5"9 and would be average looking if he wasnt for his style
style: long chin hair. Light skin. Tattoos on arm and neck. peacocky jeans. peacocky shoes. peacocky hats. chains on the jeans. chains around neck. STANDS OUT.
voice: Ultra powerful. he talks fast but clear. His voice can be intimidating to most people.
humor: hes really quick. he can amog the shit out of you or sometimes just plain insults people. his brash humor is well calibrated though. Tells great stories when he tells them but is more of the kind of guy who jokes around.
intellience: Smart as hell although again you wouldn't think it at first.
Dade county goes direct but will tease a girl. He kinoes alot and talks real soft to them or in their ear.
Speedster just makes small talk the girls are usually into him within the first five to ten seconds. The girl ends up chasing him. He teases girls and is great w/ groups. Especially groups w/ guys in it.
The main thing I noticed about these guys besides their leadership qualities are there nonverbals and style. They both have those aspects super tight. I know other naturals but they don't get the results these guys get and are usually better looking.
Fr: Beginning of a beautiful year
It's a new year and I'm happy and for the first I have made new years resolutions and I plan to stick to them. One of those resolutions happens to be talking to at least five girls five days a week and so far I've gone out everyday and done five or more approaches usually more.
Monday: I talked to alot of people I already knew from last semester but in my eyes they don't count as approaches so I won't even mention them......My first approach was this light skin girl who was waiting at the bus stop w/ her phone out......So I used my c/f opener for girls who are on phones it hooked......I teased her and leaned back and she kept qualifying herself to me....At some point I could tell I was losing interest because I started to go for rapport w/o fully attracting her yet but never the less I still had higher value and ended # closing a very shaky number......I chatted up four other girls this day but it didn't go anywhere. The problem with the approches this day was I had no direction.
Tuesday: I # closed some girls I met from last semester. I did five approaches none of which went anywhere due to not hooking and no directon.
Wensday: I met yet another light skin girl at the bus stop I'll call her Hbtrack since she runs track for the school.....This day I had direction So I used the email opener and a bunch of other routines..... I chatted her for about 45 mins this day while watching the school basball team practice......Afterwards I left her and did four more approaches.....none hooked but all the girls left laughing. Went to skybar and talked to a bunch of white girls....Most sets hooked but I wasn't really interested.
thursday: This day my day was full so I just wanted open five girls so i wouldn't lose what I already had....Some of these sets hooked but they weren't my type.
Friday: This day all sets hooked but there was one particular set that I'm proud of. A moving two set one thick dark skin black girl and a light skin black girl w/ a nice body...I opened w/ the email opener...mini cold read...both girls were attracted to me and both didn't want to leave....I went after the light skin one since I loooovve light skin black girls. I dhv'ed to the group then qualified the light skin girl and bounced....... I went to a party later that night but had no note worthy approaches but I saw my sticking point.
Saturday: Went to the club 22 deep.....Over half of the guys get laid on the regular and two of the guys are natural pick up artists.I did five approaches at a black club.....I basically set my chair up at the bar and chatted girls who came up to get a drink....none hooked because I didn't talk to the group plus the girls were only coming up to get drinks....I basically took this approach because I'm trying to get comfortable talking in black clubs.
Positives:
1. met alot of cool chicks
2. have alot more direction in my approach now.
3. I'm becoming better at talking to groups
4. I had a good ass time
5. I never had a bad reaction from a girl. Never.
Sp's:
1. Ok heres my BIG sticking point. On friday there was a mixed party (white girls and black girls in the same venue on opposite sides though). Some reason I couldn't get the balls to approach on the black side but when I was on the white side I was king.....Although I improved a lot this week my inner game has a long way to go. I still fear approaching black girls more than I should.
2. After watching the naturals tell stories and interact. I know I have to work on my storytelling abilities and overall assertiveness in general.
Monday: I talked to alot of people I already knew from last semester but in my eyes they don't count as approaches so I won't even mention them......My first approach was this light skin girl who was waiting at the bus stop w/ her phone out......So I used my c/f opener for girls who are on phones it hooked......I teased her and leaned back and she kept qualifying herself to me....At some point I could tell I was losing interest because I started to go for rapport w/o fully attracting her yet but never the less I still had higher value and ended # closing a very shaky number......I chatted up four other girls this day but it didn't go anywhere. The problem with the approches this day was I had no direction.
Tuesday: I # closed some girls I met from last semester. I did five approaches none of which went anywhere due to not hooking and no directon.
Wensday: I met yet another light skin girl at the bus stop I'll call her Hbtrack since she runs track for the school.....This day I had direction So I used the email opener and a bunch of other routines..... I chatted her for about 45 mins this day while watching the school basball team practice......Afterwards I left her and did four more approaches.....none hooked but all the girls left laughing. Went to skybar and talked to a bunch of white girls....Most sets hooked but I wasn't really interested.
thursday: This day my day was full so I just wanted open five girls so i wouldn't lose what I already had....Some of these sets hooked but they weren't my type.
Friday: This day all sets hooked but there was one particular set that I'm proud of. A moving two set one thick dark skin black girl and a light skin black girl w/ a nice body...I opened w/ the email opener...mini cold read...both girls were attracted to me and both didn't want to leave....I went after the light skin one since I loooovve light skin black girls. I dhv'ed to the group then qualified the light skin girl and bounced....... I went to a party later that night but had no note worthy approaches but I saw my sticking point.
Saturday: Went to the club 22 deep.....Over half of the guys get laid on the regular and two of the guys are natural pick up artists.I did five approaches at a black club.....I basically set my chair up at the bar and chatted girls who came up to get a drink....none hooked because I didn't talk to the group plus the girls were only coming up to get drinks....I basically took this approach because I'm trying to get comfortable talking in black clubs.
Positives:
1. met alot of cool chicks
2. have alot more direction in my approach now.
3. I'm becoming better at talking to groups
4. I had a good ass time
5. I never had a bad reaction from a girl. Never.
Sp's:
1. Ok heres my BIG sticking point. On friday there was a mixed party (white girls and black girls in the same venue on opposite sides though). Some reason I couldn't get the balls to approach on the black side but when I was on the white side I was king.....Although I improved a lot this week my inner game has a long way to go. I still fear approaching black girls more than I should.
2. After watching the naturals tell stories and interact. I know I have to work on my storytelling abilities and overall assertiveness in general.
Monday, January 8, 2007
Introduction
I'm going to start posting about my journey from intermediate pua to master pua. I'll also be posting random thoughts about everyday things this blog will be like my personal journal for everyone to see.
I also think its good for black puas to have someone that they can read about since approaching for a black man is different than it is for a white man. The structure's the same but the words and the identity you have to convey is different. I use natural game and mystery method, basically I switch up between the two. So enjoy peeps.
I also think its good for black puas to have someone that they can read about since approaching for a black man is different than it is for a white man. The structure's the same but the words and the identity you have to convey is different. I use natural game and mystery method, basically I switch up between the two. So enjoy peeps.
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