It's a new year and I'm happy and for the first I have made new years resolutions and I plan to stick to them. One of those resolutions happens to be talking to at least five girls five days a week and so far I've gone out everyday and done five or more approaches usually more.
Monday: I talked to alot of people I already knew from last semester but in my eyes they don't count as approaches so I won't even mention them......My first approach was this light skin girl who was waiting at the bus stop w/ her phone out......So I used my c/f opener for girls who are on phones it hooked......I teased her and leaned back and she kept qualifying herself to me....At some point I could tell I was losing interest because I started to go for rapport w/o fully attracting her yet but never the less I still had higher value and ended # closing a very shaky number......I chatted up four other girls this day but it didn't go anywhere. The problem with the approches this day was I had no direction.
Tuesday: I # closed some girls I met from last semester. I did five approaches none of which went anywhere due to not hooking and no directon.
Wensday: I met yet another light skin girl at the bus stop I'll call her Hbtrack since she runs track for the school.....This day I had direction So I used the email opener and a bunch of other routines..... I chatted her for about 45 mins this day while watching the school basball team practice......Afterwards I left her and did four more approaches.....none hooked but all the girls left laughing. Went to skybar and talked to a bunch of white girls....Most sets hooked but I wasn't really interested.
thursday: This day my day was full so I just wanted open five girls so i wouldn't lose what I already had....Some of these sets hooked but they weren't my type.
Friday: This day all sets hooked but there was one particular set that I'm proud of. A moving two set one thick dark skin black girl and a light skin black girl w/ a nice body...I opened w/ the email opener...mini cold read...both girls were attracted to me and both didn't want to leave....I went after the light skin one since I loooovve light skin black girls. I dhv'ed to the group then qualified the light skin girl and bounced....... I went to a party later that night but had no note worthy approaches but I saw my sticking point.
Saturday: Went to the club 22 deep.....Over half of the guys get laid on the regular and two of the guys are natural pick up artists.I did five approaches at a black club.....I basically set my chair up at the bar and chatted girls who came up to get a drink....none hooked because I didn't talk to the group plus the girls were only coming up to get drinks....I basically took this approach because I'm trying to get comfortable talking in black clubs.
Positives:
1. met alot of cool chicks
2. have alot more direction in my approach now.
3. I'm becoming better at talking to groups
4. I had a good ass time
5. I never had a bad reaction from a girl. Never.
Sp's:
1. Ok heres my BIG sticking point. On friday there was a mixed party (white girls and black girls in the same venue on opposite sides though). Some reason I couldn't get the balls to approach on the black side but when I was on the white side I was king.....Although I improved a lot this week my inner game has a long way to go. I still fear approaching black girls more than I should.
2. After watching the naturals tell stories and interact. I know I have to work on my storytelling abilities and overall assertiveness in general.
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